“I was only the servant of my country and had I, at any moment, failed to express her unflinching resolve to fight and conquer, I should at once have been rightly cast aside. ” Winston Churchill
Since the age of five, he knew he would be a doctor. I was there when he opened his letter of acceptance to medical school, and I’ve witnessed his 40+ years of service to his community as a family practice physician. He will often say he’s a servant to his patients. His eyes light up and he becomes animated when he tells stories of relieving someone’s pain or working through a log jam in their life.
He is a success story that keeps unfolding. He is my brother, Arthur R. Davis, Jr., M.D.
The “servant” concept came together for me in an “a ha” moment this morning, as I read an email from Jonathan Budd entitled, You’ve Been Brainwashed. His basic premise is that the barter system, the ancient source of money, still applies today. Our thinking is “How can we get money,” not “How can I serve?” or “What do I have to offer?”
Here’s the bottom line of his email:
”YOU ARE WHAT’S VALUABLE.
It’s your energy, your skills, your knowledge,
your passion, your heart that has built our
world & continues to do so.
Stop trading it for peanuts.
Reclaim your value. Re learn how to Barter.
And constantly invest in GROWING your
own skill sets & god given talents in life.
This is the sure fire way to get ahead in
our economic system that is STILL based
on Bartering… yet most people have forgotten
& are under the delusion of “Money” as the
resource (it’s not).”
Jonathan is offering a community at Life Transformation Now that will allow you to examine and expand your own personal power. I’d love to have you join me on the other side if this resonates with you.
As YOUR servant, I am ready to turn the word disability on its head—into ability. I am here to help anyone who has a disease or log jam in their life refocus their energy, live above what keeps them feeling “less than,” and pursue life to the max!
Here’s a brief recap of my story.
Carpe diem,
September 8th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
Darlene
What a great way to reframe any disability or limiting believe to just turn it around. Love it. I am working on a particular limiting belief that I have at the moment and I know that it is just in my head. I am just going to tell myself the opposite each time it enters my head. Thanks Belinda
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September 9th, 2010 at 6:15 am
Belinda,
We can do anything we set our minds to. Yes, turning a limiting belief around on a consistent basis is where it all begins.
September 8th, 2010 at 9:30 pm
Hey Darlene~
Again this post hits home, too closely! I love the way you’re handling your adversity! If you don’t mind me asking, what weekly treatments did your brother give you?
I am happy for you that you’re doing so well! You have created a wonderful life for yourself, focusing on the things that you can do!
Love,
Linda
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September 9th, 2010 at 6:18 am
Linda,
My brother uses Reiki and a combination of some other Indian treatments. He also does spinal adjustments on a regular basis. You and I are both lucky that we have such wonderful lives!
September 9th, 2010 at 3:33 pm
You are a goddess, Darlene ….. I am deeply touched by your story. There are far too many people who would let something like this, be it a physical or mental limitation, define them. You are such an inspiration, and example of what is possible when you BELIEVE it’s possible!
I will definitely see you on the inside of JB’s Life Transformation Now….it’s a no brainer in my opinion. Phenomenal value at an unbeatable price.
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September 10th, 2010 at 8:29 am
Thanks, Beth. I’m not that special, really—just someone who has learned to live above disability. I’m here to serve others who are challenged. Hope I can help them!
Looking forward to connecting with you on Life Transformation Now:)
September 9th, 2010 at 4:45 pm
Hi Darlene,
Your story is an inspiration, I wish more people would look at life how you view it.
I like how you put it, you wake up and your glass is more than half full. That is the type of effort I put into the work I do. I struggled and could have given up but see my wife and 2 children and it pushes me to work harder every single day.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Keep it up!!
Tommy D.
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September 10th, 2010 at 8:32 am
Hi Tommy,
Nice to connect with you. Pushing harder every single day is the key to success, don’t you think?
September 9th, 2010 at 6:19 pm
Carpe diem indeed, Darlene! You are inspiring and one of the most determined people I know. You are so right about living in the moment and not letting our physical, emotional, and spiritual challenges steal from us those precious moments in life! Thanks for inspiring me, my friend. And I think it was Winston Churchill who also said, never, never, never, never, never, never give up!
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September 10th, 2010 at 8:34 am
You are right Debbie. It was Winston Churchill—one of my all-time heroes. Thanks for the reminder. You are a constant inspiration to me, too, my friend!
September 9th, 2010 at 8:42 pm
Darlene, what a wonderful inspirational person you are! Your story should be shared with everyone. The dietary changes you are making will be significant and may not show up initially but over time you will be helping your cells to restore their vitality by letting go of the burden of stress-ful foods. The less the body has to work at processing, the more attention it can give to healing your nervous system.
God bless you!
Clare
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September 10th, 2010 at 8:36 am
Clare,
Like the use of stress-ful foods. Excellent idea that I’ll remind myself of when I’m tempted to go off course. You just inspired me!
September 10th, 2010 at 5:22 am
Hi Darlene
Watching your video gave me goosebumps from head to toe – literally!
You are one truly remarkable lady and I admire your attitude and courage. I know it isn’t always easy for you, but I’m proud of you and the way you’re able to focus on the positives more than the negatives.
You’re also one very proud sister, aren’t you?
(I can relate to that – I’m very proud of both my sister and brother).
As for Jonathan’s email, I love it! (he’s a very wise young man, isn’t he?).
***** YOU ARE WHAT IS VALUABLE! *****
We all have something special to share with the world (whether we are consciously aware of it yet or not), and the best investment any of us can make is in ourselves through personal development, further education, learning new skills, spiritual growth etc.
In doing that, not only do we improve our own lives, but we are better equipped to help others.
Helping others is something that I get great satisfaction from for no other reason than … I simply love to help! (this really is the truth – in case anyone reading this doesn’t believe me).
** I missed the bus in primary school once because I was helping the teacher clean the blackboard! Oops! She took me home when she realised the time, which was about the same time that Mum was wondering where I was! **
I’ve signed up for Jonathan’s course too.
Darlene, I truly value your friendship and support, and I love that you’re a testament to the saying, “You can’t keep a good woman down”.
~ Kylie ~
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September 10th, 2010 at 12:14 pm
Kylie,
You are such a treasure! And it is TRUE–you are one of the most helpful people I know! I look forward to our frequent chats. You’re a terrific teacher!
September 10th, 2010 at 1:57 pm
From one treasure to another … thanks!
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September 11th, 2010 at 7:51 am
Oh Kylie,
I love you!
September 10th, 2010 at 8:13 am
Hey Darlene,
Good for you for not giving in! Your positivity and perseverance are an inspiration
You are proof that seeing the glass half full and having the attitude of gratitude can have so much power in our everyday life.
Thanks to you (and Abby) for sharing your story with us!
In Success,
Howie Perks
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September 10th, 2010 at 5:21 pm
Hey there Darlene,
You make such a good point there. The world has always been about bartering. In fact it really still is except instead of trading a skill for a skill we now trade a skill for money which then buys us all kinds of cool stuff.
But really, in the end if the world blew up tonight. Tomorrow the wealthiest man would be the one with the best/most skills.
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September 11th, 2010 at 7:54 am
Matthew,
That’s the whole point. Skill is what it’s all about developing!
September 10th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
Hi Dar,
I absolutely agree, we really need to focus on our personal strong points and where our value lies. Bartering with our own value is using our strongest points and contributing in the best way possible.
I’m so pleased that you’re a member of Jonathan’s ‘Life Transformation Now’ group, I look forward to this empowering journey with you
In Health and Harmony
Toni
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September 11th, 2010 at 7:55 am
Toni,
It will be fun to take the LTN journey with you. Am really looking forward to it!
September 10th, 2010 at 6:35 pm
Darlene, you have stolen the hearts of all your readers with this video. What a great story. I love listening to peoples live stories. It is inspiring to hear people defy the odds and make every day a positive one. Those stories in itself provide energy. I know that I will think of you and your story the next time I am struggling. Thanks for sharing.
I wish you many many more days with the glass more than half full!
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September 11th, 2010 at 7:57 am
Thanks, Karin. If you are ever struggling, remember that I’m only a phone (or Skype) call away. We’re all here to help each other, right?
September 10th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
Darlene, you are one of the most determined and inspiring people I know. You are so right that a positive mind set is crucial in allowing us to achieve our full potential. I have occasionally been guilty of not making every day count….so thank you for the reminder.
Thank you for sharing your story and the inspiration.
Louise
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September 11th, 2010 at 7:59 am
Louise,
You inspire me, too. After we’ve talked, I often envision skiing beside you with the wind in my face and jumping every mogul there is! Still waiting for some of those awesome pictures …
September 11th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
Darlene,
You ARE a blessing and an inspiration to us all. I’ve got three herniated discs in my neck that are excruciating from time to time, so I agree that it’s important to appreciate what we DO have. And being focused outside of ourselves, being of service, being of contribution to others is the ultimate solution.
Thanks so much,
Adam
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September 11th, 2010 at 4:35 pm
Adam,
You certainly know how to be of service to others. I think that is what you are all about. I learn a lot from you. Focusing outside of ourselves is the only way to live.
Thanks for sharing your physical limitation. Isn’t there anyway to repair herniated discs?
September 11th, 2010 at 3:28 pm
Good for you Darlene!
You story is very inspiring, thanks for sharing it.
I am taking up your challenge.
Peter
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September 11th, 2010 at 4:38 pm
Peter,
Yeah for taking up the challenge! Please let me know how it goes for you. Catch me on Skype, k?
September 11th, 2010 at 3:36 pm
Darlene,
I admire your spunk and your courage. You are a woman on a mission and I believe you are bound to accomplish it.
I found your story full of passion and very sincere. You give hope to others that are in a similar situation. It’s sounds like your life is very full and Abby wants to certainly remind you of it. Is there love in the air?
Thanks Darlene, you are a pillar of strength.
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September 11th, 2010 at 4:37 pm
Hey Don,
You got it—life is very full. Yes, love is in the air. Ain’t it great!
I appreciate your support and an occasional nudge (like the 30-day video challenge).
September 12th, 2010 at 7:30 am
Darlene,
I have a similar experience with cancer, haven been given a 0% chance. No one has ever survived my cancer. It is 3 years later and I am healthy as a horse. The chemo was horrible but I never complained. And the surgery to remove my lymphatic system was tuff. But there I was determined, positive and not just a survivor, but a thriver.
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September 13th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
You are an inspiration Darlene. Thanks so much for sharing your story. Your mindset in wonderful. As you probably I know I’m into personal development in a big way and just shows you what the mind is capable of but just as importantly we all have a choice when we get up in the morning.
Thanks again,
Michael
September 13th, 2010 at 6:50 pm
Michael,
If we believe it, we can achieve it, right? You are an inspiration also, Michael. I’ve been carrying around your quote: “you work harder on yourself and your thoughts than any one thing. “
September 14th, 2010 at 1:55 pm
Great Post Darlene. Very inspirational Video about overcoming obstacles and situations. its always good to look at the glass half full instead of half empty.
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September 15th, 2010 at 12:59 am
Hey Darlene, that is one awesome video. I must confess I had tears in my eyes watching you. You are such an inspiration.
I must go back and dig out Jonathan’s email. I spotted it in my in box and have not opened it. Although I did join his club.
Carpe diem are such powerful words. I am always moved by them. I must remind myself more often when I put off important things in my life.
Hey and like Don I picked up on the love again – details please
I love your dog in the background. Dogs teach us so much they live in the moment and never give up.
Take care
Sue
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March 14th, 2011 at 1:13 pm
Hi Darlene,
It’s great to see you always writing this kind of articles. Very interesting method to turn the ‘disability’ into ability. Also, thank God I don’t have any problems of this kind, but if I will have (hope not) I will come back to this article, hehe. Thanks for sharing, very interesting article and very interesting perspective as well.
Best regards,
Maria
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