Tag Archive | "Dying"

On Being Orphaned

Thursday, June 17, 2010

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“Death is no more than passing from one room into another. But there’s a difference for me, you know. Because in that other room I shall be able to see. “ Helen Keller Rushing into the groomers with Abbie (my 4.5 lb. toy poodle) in tow, I was caught short by the solemn expression on [...]

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A Shortened Life

Saturday, January 16, 2010

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A Shortened Life “[W]e never know how much time we have.  We need to live NOW.  Serve now. Love now.  Be the difference you want to see in the world NOW.” Christine Comaford-Lynch How do you deal with the loss of someone you love who had their whole life ahead of them? This is an [...]

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